12 Ways To Deal with a Nervous or Stubborn Child

12 Ways To  Deal with a Nervous or Stubborn Child 

The Art of Dealing with a Nervous Child

Education and psychology experts consider that the main reason for the problems that occur in adolescence of different degrees and forms is a lack of understanding of parents, educators and teachers of the nature of this stage of the age of the son and its requirements and needs, resulting in not knowing how to equip the child to move from childhood to stage Adolescence, and therefore adolescents need special treatment at this critical and critical stage of their lives based on guidance, guidance, advice and good example in order to control their emotions and feelings and behavior and tendencies and refinement to pass the adolescent this stage safely and safely And his family and society, and in this article we will give ways to help on how to deal with teenagers.

Ways of dealing with adolescents

To deal with adolescents, many arts and methods depending on the stage of adolescence experienced by the child and according to the behavior and nature of the child himself, including:

  1. Focus on the positive aspects of the child and avoid mentioning the negatives and defects.
  2. Expression of love by parents through gentle handling, gifts, respect for colleagues, respect for friends, and appeals to the nickname he loves.
  3. Avoid advising the teenager in the manner of the lecturer  which causes his disobedience, but must be guidance and advice in short and meaningful words.
  4. The short answer is when the teenager asks his parents about any order and does not show doubts about him because of this question.
  5. Stay away from taking the role of investigator with teenage friends and ask them about the details of the friendship that binds them.
  6. Encourage the teenager to speak frankly with his parents and break the fear barrier.
  7. Parental participation of the adolescent in what he finds interesting, such as playing, drawing and various hobbies.
  8. Parental participation of the adolescent in the performance of acts of worship such as prayer group or go together to the mosque, or distribution of alms, and visit relatives together.
  9. Give the teenager the full opportunity to talk and give an opinion.
  10. Stay away from harassing and embarrassing him.
  11. Respect for the privacy of the adolescent and not to be affected when the suspicion of conduct or something that must be verified without notice of violation of privacy.
  12. Work to enhance the confidence of the adolescent himself and the world around him.